Hidden calories...in your drink?

Following on the tails of yesterday's post, I thought I'd delve a little more into hidden calories. I briefly mentioned drinks in our house and that we don't have many of them. We mostly drink water. Kevin drinks lots of water and eats all the vegetables and "crap" I make and his family still cannot believe it. I got him out of his hamburger helper upbringing hehe.

But, they also think I'm weird when I tell them that Kian cannot have more juice, cannot have xxx whatever to drink. He and I have a little orange juice (or which ever juice we bought that week) in the morning with breakfast, and that is it. He loves water and asks for it often. If he asks for milk he can have it, but I don't offer it. I always just give him water unless he specifies. (Side note is that I stopped buying cow's milk for him this month so Kevin is the only one who has it in the house, and Kian drinks rice milk with me. He gets plenty of calcium and protein in other ways.) This is odd to many people who repeatedly fill their child's cups (and *gasp* bottles) with iced tea, koolaid, and juice.

[Please note, that at holidays, birthdays, special things, I do let him have other drinks and other foods that I normally say no to, he's not deprived.]

Anyways, the point of this is to talk about the hidden calories in drinks. People really do not pay attention to what their are drinking a lot of the time. They will down a snapple or soda with dinner and not think twice. Many people try to lose weight and don't understand why they can't lose that last 5 pounds. Nix the sports drink, the glass of wine at night, the Pepsi with dinner and voila! You will have lost it.

Reading the label and understanding that one bottle of Snapple, Arizona tea, Sobe, whatever it is, is not just one serving-it's two! That means you might think you're only drinking 150 calories, but that's a serving size and your bottle is 2 servings. If you down that thing in one sitting, or with a meal, you're taking in an extra 300 calories you don't even think about. One day spent with my mother I watched her drink 2 huge fancy coffee/latte things and yet not eat all day. She kept saying she wasn't hungry. Then I realized and said "that's because you just drank your days' worth of calories. You took in your calories in liquid form instead of food form, (and also missing vital nutrients in the process)".

Most drinks do not provide the vitamins and minerals and nutrients needed, especially those ones that contain little or no real juice. Not to mention the ridiculous amount of sugar in these drinks. Going to the dentist often for cavities? Check your drinks! A can of coke or Pepsi has 12 teaspoons of sugar-twelve!! I watched Supernanny measure it out for a dad one day, he finally got it and got rid of it for the kids. Soda tends to be acidic, weakening the enamel on the tooth, and also full of sugar, which then attaches to that weakened tooth enamel, causing lots of dental problems. Not cool!

So, this is why my child drinks mostly water. This is why I limit his juice intake and decline other drinks. This is why pediatricians are telling parents to follow the 4 oz of 100% juice per day. That is not much, it's one small juicey juice box. Most kids are getting 4 times that each day. This is why we're seeing obesity rising in children...well that and the crazy amount of video games and tv time they get. I know that I am a 'health nut' or 'food fanatic' or whatever else you want to call me, but the more I learn and know about our bodies, and how food can help, heal, restore or break it down, the more careful we are with what we put in it. I know there's going to be a day when my children eats tons of garbage at school or with their friends or when they're on their own, but at least right now I can start them off right and hope it sticks with them!

And I realize I jumped from hidden calories in drinks to healthy eating back to drink and all over the place. I had to really stop myself, I could have gone on all day with this healthy eating post. I should pick a day and implement healthy eating/living ideas...

Stuck in the middle with you

Stuck in the middle alright. The middle of my pants. My old "fat" pants are too big and fall off my butt when I walk. But, my "skinnier" pants don't fit yet either. My old fat pants are ones I had just before I was pregnant with Kian and then for awhile after. My newer "skinnier" pants are ones I was wearing right before I got pregnant with Karter. I worked out more and lost more weight right before getting pregnant, of course. 'Cause that's just how life works.

I need to find some time to lose those extra pounds so I can fit into my nicer clothes again. I must have been darn lazy after I had Kian and must have sat around doing nothing, because it took me forever to lose the baby weight. It wasn't until I really regimented myself into an intense workout for a month straight that it started to budge, then started coming off easier. I would lose a pound here or there but didn't try until he was 6 months old. That's not happening this time. Mostly because I have nothing to wear right now, well shirts fit no matter what, but pants... ugh! I know it's because I'm running after a toddler and not just sitting around watching tv and nursing like last time, that I am losing this weight faster without trying too hard. The nursing definitely helps with the weight loss though.

But, also over the last couple years we continue to eat healthier. There is so much less junk, carbs, processed food and so much more fresh or frozen fruits and vegetables. I also make things more from scratch now instead of eating out or buying pre-made. And drinks, that was the easiest, and often overlooked change--drinks. We buy milk/rice milk, one carton of OJ, and sometimes a cider or grape juice. That's it. No pop, soda, no iced tea or lemonades or mixed drinks, no snapples or sunnyD, etc. We drink lots of water. And I know that the outside work and extra walks we take counts towards calorie burning.

So, I know I"ll lose the 'baby weight' soon, and hopefully more! And penny pinching me really doesn't want to buy new pants for "just awhile" so, for now, I'm just stuck in the middle....

Do a little dance

Elissa and I went to the Strong Museum together for the toddler Halloween festivities. Kian wasn't all that interested in the "trick or treating" they had going on. He just wanted to explore more of the museum that we hadn't last time. He did attempt the scarecrow craft they had, and "trick or treated" for a pack of Pooh cards, a sticker, a bag of goldfish and a pumpkin pencil. He also got a frog tattoo on his arm. But obviously, chauffeuring Cookie Monster around was much more fun:


I didn't take a lot of pictures that day as we were doing lots of running around and child chasing. After lunch we decided to take it upstairs to the "Dancing Through the Decades" screen. You can choose music from various time periods in the last century from the Charleston to Jay-z. The kids loved the pop/hip-hop ones with the best beats. The coolest part is the screen. It kept them entertained (and in one spot!) for quite awhile!

No, I do not know how to use my camera in this setting. I turned in on the night setting. I also was carrying a fussy baby and chasing a toddler. Someday I'll have a minute to really learn my camera better and what I"m doing...someday...


That's me taking pictures of myself on the screen and Kian break-dancing on the floor.




And Grant busting a move:

God huh?

Yep. One of those posts. I don't do it often enough. I have done a lot of thinking and more thinking and listening lately. I know that not everyone knows all the details, but this year has been an extremely stressful year for me, and my family. There is so much going on, so much has gone on, some has been resolved, some is still being resolved, some things turned out great, and some are unknown (isn't everything, really?). Some things had to do with Karter before he was born and concerns and worries arose, but he's perfectly fine! My family has issues they are working through (Kevin and I are fine, not that).

Because of all the stresses this year I really have been praying a lot. And meaning it. I prayed hard for Karter to not have the issues and problems they were saying he might have. Then I prayed thankfully that he is a very healthy boy. I prayed and still am praying for my family and for things to continue to change for the better. Does prayer work? Yes! Well, maybe not in the way we want it to, but it does. My baby boy is perfectly healthy and doesn't have syndromes and abnormalities they warned us he could have. I believe that's because of all the prayers that went up for him. Is my family perfect and going to be oh so happy tomorrow? Nope. But, I'm seeing changes and things I've prayed for come to fruition. Of course, it's not always that easy and happy, somethings God doesn't want to answer the way we want too. I'm not very good at explaining these things well, so take a look here at MckMama's post on prayer. It's about her son, but she does a great job explaining prayer.

And, maybe, after all this, like some believe, it's nothing. There's no God and what is the worst that happens? I've lived my life believing in something higher than me. Something that I can turn too when people have failed me. There's a saying something about "would rather live like there's a heaven and find out there's not, than live like there isn't and find out there is," and hell too. Read this article for more. Maybe as some say, I'm doing it all for naught. But, even if that is the case (which I do not believe it is, and very much believe in God) than I've lost nothing, and gained much in my life by being able to let things go, to release my stress onto him and feel that my prayers are heard and answered and feel protected by the highest power.

I am raising my children to believe in God, in the power of prayer and heaven and hell. I won't misuse it to get them to do what I want or obey. Yes, there has been misuse and abuse of religion and God. (And I truly believe there is a difference in God and religion-that's a post for another day!) Some use it to make others fearful, and to dominate, and that's not what God is, who God is. I don't really know where I wanted to go, or am going with this post. But, it's Sunday. I'm going to church. I'm just thinking about my answered prayers, and my ability to cast all my cares on him. And I guess I just wanted to say some of that... this seems very unorganized and unfinished, but it will either end up being 12 pages long or I stop now until I sort out the words in my head...so we'll save more for later...

Brotherly love

Kian is very much in love with Karter---most of the time. As long as Karter's not crying, he wants him, kissing him, holding his hands. And if he's sleeping--opening his eyes! Yes, we have to be very, very observant. I'm glad he's turned the corner on the aggressiveness with Karter, but his love can be painful too!

How I got them both smiling at the same time, I have no idea! Fast camera!


They wore their baseball outfits to the museum Halloween party. I thought they portrayed the World Series nicely...until I realized Kian's shirt said Rangers. Oops. What do I know about baseball, anyway?



My favorite:



Another fave- whispering "love you Karter buddy" in his ear



So happy to be the big brother, so unsure about being the little brother!


We're doing much better as Kian will cover his ears now if Karter is bothering him. He tries to be so helpful, but his help isn't always the best. But, I don't want to damper his enthusiasm so I give him small, easy tasks to do (get the blanket, find him a toy, etc.) and make him feel important. It's working for now...until Karter knocks over his towers or chews on his McQueen car...


Garden Factory Fun

The Garden Factory is an amazing place just down the road from us with a ridiculous amount of plants, vegetables, flowers, trees, etc. And there's always something fun going on, like their Halloween activities.

No, I did not make him stay in the stroller, that was mostly for the parking lot and in case he got tired. Wishful thinking. First up was bird man Terry and his funky pigeons and chickens and ducks and whatever else he had there. I am not a big fan of birds, rather dislike them and think they're dirty. I found Purell.



"We represent the lollipop kids, the lollipop kids..." For some reason, this photo makes me think of the yellow brick road. Pumpkin insanity!


This? This is priceless. Priceless I tell you. Something about a pumpkin-cloaked, screaming, happy two year old boy in front of a racecar that will make you laugh.


Grant finding a pumpkin in his Chicka chicka boom boom costume. And yes, Elissa made it herself!

Elissa, Grant and Paul


Me and the boys. Technically Karter's head should be facing the other way in the sling, but he refuses and loves to have his face buried in my shirt all day long, no matter which way I hold him and turn him. Stubborn 7 week old!



That's not my hair, it's a scarecrow and hay sticking out behind my head!



Kian playing "witch pitch". He won a sticker.



Glor x 2



Move over Gordon!


Good morning sunshine

God's got an amazing way with color, don't you think?







Friday, 10/30/09 7:15 am


The un-carving of a pumpkin

Kian and I had all intentions of carving his pumpkin with something cool. When it came to that moment, all decision went out the window. After he and Kevin scooped and scraped the (kind of rotten) seeds out, we asked one final time what he wanted us to carve. "Ace". As in the cat. Hmm, okay. Kevin started drawing an outline of a cat, and decided it was too much work. By that time Kian was already distracted by his paints and so they decided to paint a cat on the side instead. Whatever works baby. Go to town with it.



This is Karter. He's gotten to be a fat little chub lately. He weighs almost 13 lbs. Which is probably about what this pumpkin weighed before we gutted it. Karter's not so sure about this ripped open, extra large squash in front of him. Just wait my dear, next year you'll be all about the gooshy pumpkin seed mess!



Bills Birthday Buds

Posting pictures counts towards the daily blog challenge right? Cuz I took lots lately and that's what I'm going to do!

This is Krysten, and Kristin.
This is Karter and Elizabeth.


They were born on the same day, under slightly "induced-like" circumstances, at Strong Hospital. Elizabeth is about 6 or 7 hours older than Karter. And clearly, she didn't have any remaining jaundice like he did. They were hoping the Bills would win last Sunday, and this Sunday, well any Sunday really.



Fall pictures